Messages: Jan 10, 2005
For the stocky guy with fading blond highlights:
Why do you always do this to yourself? You're a nice enough guy, but honestly, she is just way the hell out of your league. If you took a deep enough look, I'm pretty sure you'll find that you are not all that attracted to that type anyway, you just have this weird problem with setting yourself up to be shot down. Why? I dunno. Something about your mother being constantly dominated by your dad, and now you are subconsiously following in her footsteps. Look bud, find somebody supportive that thinks you're cute, not friend-funny. Oddly enough its going to be someone you are already aware of. You can tell by the way she runs her fingers through the hair on the back of your head, and if you're still clueless after that, maybe those little knick-knacks she's always picking up for you will kick your ass enough to wake up and smell the gourmet coffee. Stop looking for your movie star, and start looking at the beautiful things in real life hanging out directly in front of you.
Look, the premise behind your frustration is fairly simple. You do indeed have an undeniable charm; people like you. But your sexuality engine just isnt designed to run at a high temp for long periods of time. I know, I know, when you hook up with a hottie, emotions are a flying and you feel more alive than at any other time. But it's just the initial chemistry, not the way you were designed to run over the long haul. So as the initial rush begins to fade, your engine cools down to its average running speed (and hey, once or twice a week is still not bad for a guy your age) and the girl that your with, who naturally runs much hotter is left with something she didn't sign up for. She wants out and gets out, and you are left with the desire to pick up yet another hottie just to prove you can. Wash. Rinse. Repeat.
Sustainable effort over time is the key to a long term relationship; cut that high burn, short-lived shit right out. The stress is killing you, and the pressure to be overwhelmingly charming is kinda turning your natural charm into a forced assholic smile. The one you want likes you even when you're not 'on'. Go with it.
To the slim brown-haired girl who can't stop thinking about a stylized Aztec sun covered in gold atop a small pyramid surrounded by lush and deep jungle:
You've never been in a real jungle, which would explain the dream-like quality to the whole thing. So why can't you get this image out of your head? Honestly, I don't entirely know. What I do know however, is that a pre-occupation with any one symbol in particular is generally indicative of your subconcious mind trying to inform you of something. Here's the interpretation I'm getting so far:
The sun represents spiritual wealth, not neccessarily money, but a treasure which is deeply and personally rewarding to you. The road through the jungle is your longing for a new adventure, and the jungle itself represents the challenges and rewards (it really is beautiful, isn't it?) you are going to face if you undertake this new challenge. The setting itself, the imagining of a place you've never been, indicates that although you are aware of the path to these riches, they are not something you ever seriously considered or experienced.
Now is the time, to reconsider where you have been and where you are going. There is a dream you've had for a while, placed on the back burner because it seems to impractical to make reality. It's not as impractical as you'd think, you know this as the path in your vision is wide, and the pyramid itself is short - more symbolic of a worthy acheivment than an obsticle to be conquered. Take the time to build an action plan and make your dream a reality - it can be done, and it will most certainly be worth your while in the end.
And also I would like to see something else in the stream for a bit, your presence in it is rather overwhelming. By now you've noticed that the world and people in it just seems to shape itself to your will when there is need. It's a good thing, but for the love of god learn some focus; a torrent is spectacular to witness, but the same energy brought to a point would be very nearly unstoppable. But whatever, do as you will - you're good at it.
Why do you always do this to yourself? You're a nice enough guy, but honestly, she is just way the hell out of your league. If you took a deep enough look, I'm pretty sure you'll find that you are not all that attracted to that type anyway, you just have this weird problem with setting yourself up to be shot down. Why? I dunno. Something about your mother being constantly dominated by your dad, and now you are subconsiously following in her footsteps. Look bud, find somebody supportive that thinks you're cute, not friend-funny. Oddly enough its going to be someone you are already aware of. You can tell by the way she runs her fingers through the hair on the back of your head, and if you're still clueless after that, maybe those little knick-knacks she's always picking up for you will kick your ass enough to wake up and smell the gourmet coffee. Stop looking for your movie star, and start looking at the beautiful things in real life hanging out directly in front of you.
Look, the premise behind your frustration is fairly simple. You do indeed have an undeniable charm; people like you. But your sexuality engine just isnt designed to run at a high temp for long periods of time. I know, I know, when you hook up with a hottie, emotions are a flying and you feel more alive than at any other time. But it's just the initial chemistry, not the way you were designed to run over the long haul. So as the initial rush begins to fade, your engine cools down to its average running speed (and hey, once or twice a week is still not bad for a guy your age) and the girl that your with, who naturally runs much hotter is left with something she didn't sign up for. She wants out and gets out, and you are left with the desire to pick up yet another hottie just to prove you can. Wash. Rinse. Repeat.
Sustainable effort over time is the key to a long term relationship; cut that high burn, short-lived shit right out. The stress is killing you, and the pressure to be overwhelmingly charming is kinda turning your natural charm into a forced assholic smile. The one you want likes you even when you're not 'on'. Go with it.
To the slim brown-haired girl who can't stop thinking about a stylized Aztec sun covered in gold atop a small pyramid surrounded by lush and deep jungle:
You've never been in a real jungle, which would explain the dream-like quality to the whole thing. So why can't you get this image out of your head? Honestly, I don't entirely know. What I do know however, is that a pre-occupation with any one symbol in particular is generally indicative of your subconcious mind trying to inform you of something. Here's the interpretation I'm getting so far:
The sun represents spiritual wealth, not neccessarily money, but a treasure which is deeply and personally rewarding to you. The road through the jungle is your longing for a new adventure, and the jungle itself represents the challenges and rewards (it really is beautiful, isn't it?) you are going to face if you undertake this new challenge. The setting itself, the imagining of a place you've never been, indicates that although you are aware of the path to these riches, they are not something you ever seriously considered or experienced.
Now is the time, to reconsider where you have been and where you are going. There is a dream you've had for a while, placed on the back burner because it seems to impractical to make reality. It's not as impractical as you'd think, you know this as the path in your vision is wide, and the pyramid itself is short - more symbolic of a worthy acheivment than an obsticle to be conquered. Take the time to build an action plan and make your dream a reality - it can be done, and it will most certainly be worth your while in the end.
And also I would like to see something else in the stream for a bit, your presence in it is rather overwhelming. By now you've noticed that the world and people in it just seems to shape itself to your will when there is need. It's a good thing, but for the love of god learn some focus; a torrent is spectacular to witness, but the same energy brought to a point would be very nearly unstoppable. But whatever, do as you will - you're good at it.
posted by The Messenger | Monday, January 10, 2005
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